Is Your Mind Clouded with Doubts?
Before any step that you are trying to take, before any decision that you are about to make, you have this one little thing called - Doubt.
I personally believe having a doubt is a sheer waste of time. Doubting is preferred by many. There are people whom I meet almost daily who are often weighed down with so much doubt that a simple split-second decision takes them minutes. They believe having a doubt ensures a better decision. A decision without being given prior thought to may bounce back.
But are we so unsure about our decision that we let doubt supersede us? Why are we always confusing between "giving a thought to" and "doubting"? Why has the fine line blurred?
You know where doubt does the worst of damages? No, not in just any other decision.
Relationships around us are crumbling like autumn leaves when they get crushed under our shoes. People, it seems, prefer doubting than the relationship itself.
When a person doubts the other, the other person undergoes tremendous stress. And this even fractures their relationship. People enter this vicious cycle and the relationship erodes away. But "doubt" doesn't leave a person after that relationship ends. It strengthens its vice like grip. The person begins doubting everyone of hatching this imaginary conspiracy against him/her. Those around him/her soon notice the "pushy" attitude and begin deserting that person.
My question is - Where is the happiness?
Doubt is just like fear - necessary, but only in small amounts. So, try and do justice to yourself.
I personally don't doubt anyone. Saves me the hassle. If they have to leave, sooner or later, they will.
So, you still doubt?